Johnny Dzubak.

Quit giving women reasons NOT to sleep with you

Women understand abundance very clearly by the time they develop breasts and they begin to see men in a different way. They soon find out men want sex from them and will do just about anything to get it. They soon will have their choice of men they will sleep with and will have to start looking for reasons on why they can’t sleep with every half way decent looking guy who buys them a drink or asks them out on a date or they will never get out of bed. Women themselves are highly sexual people as much if not more than we are which makes this hard and why they have to be choosy.

This is personified in an episode of Sex and the City were I am not sure which woman but one of them go out to dinner with a potential mate and he accidentally gets salad dressing on the side of his face at this point its all she can think about and suddenly attraction is gone. It is her job to find reasons no matter how arbitrary they are on why not to invite you into their lives. It is their job to find reasons to not sleep with you so lets stop giving them reasons.

Get cleaned up, put on some decent clothes, stop being a pussy, tell her how you feel about her and escalate. It is your job as a man to escalate and hers as a woman to pace it. Lead the interaction, find yourself confidence and use it.

Women are looking for these cues to not sleep with you:

1.    Unsure of yourself
2.    Bad body language
3.    Unable to be comfortable
4.    Awkward around other men and women
5.    Unable to be in the moment
6.    Lack of sense of humor
7.    Bending to their every whim
8.    Speaking to them logically while they are in a emotional state
9.    Neediness and approval seeking behavior

They want sex and they want it now but why get it from you when they already have a stable of guys they already know. They are bored of the guys they already sleep with. If they were not most likely they would be in a relationship with them. They are on the prowl for better mates. You are going to have to rise above and lead them to a better man. You are going to be him, own it, and believe it. Quit stepping all over yourselves move one foot in front of the other and proceed like you have the tools for every job and know how to use them without a flinch or hesitation. This comes down to a basic idea of just not screwing it up! If all you have to do is not screw it up then it should be pretty easy right?